
How can you tell if you have healthy standards that will protect you from getting into a bad relationship or unrealistic expectations that will sabotage you and keep you forever single?

Is God leading you to wait for that man? Or is Satan tempting you to waste your time on that guy? Is it a Spirit-led relationship that is just taking time to develop towards marriage? Or is the devil seeking to waste your life by keeping you with a guy who will never become the man you hope he will become?

Last week, I posted an article called This Verse Proves God Does Choose Your Spouse. In that article, I unpacked Genesis 24:14 in depth, which I’ve never done before. However, in the comments, I was reminded of how many misconceptions there are about this idea of “the one.”So, in this article, I will try to give concise answers to ten of the most common rebuttals I’ve heard over the years regarding my belief that “the one” is a biblical concept.
Also, I will leave links to other resources I’ve created that address these rebuttals in more depth.