Sometimes the most mature thing you can do is totally ignore someone. That’s hard for some Christians to accept, but Scripture absolutely supports this in many instances. God really might be saying, “Do not respond to that person.”
It’s a different kind of pain when your heart gets attached to someone who never actually existed. There’s a mix of emotions: betrayal, anger, feeling like a fool, disbelief, longing, loneliness, and, worst of all, emptiness.
What does the Bible say about meeting the right person at the wrong time? While Scripture does not use the phrase “right person, wrong time,” many verses speak to the need for God’s divine timing for something to be right.
There are basically two strong possibilities for why God isn’t removing your feelings. One, because he wants you and this person together. Or two, because there is something holding you back from moving on, even though God is leading you to move on.
Many Christian single men who want to be married carry an inner fear: “What if my future wife is out there, but I’m missing God’s signs? What if I pursue the wrong woman and step outside God’s will?”
Does he like you? Is he just playing games? Have you been proactive enough to help him realize he should keep pursuing you? What are this man’s intentions?