What I’m about to say is going to come off as unbiblical at first. So please read this whole article to get the full context of what I’m really saying. If you do, I believe you will better enjoy your Christian singleness and be better situated to find a Christian spouse. Alright, here it goes:
Throughout the Scriptures, it’s very clear that some are called to singleness and some are called to marriage (see 1 Corinthians 7).
Here are 4 marks of a woman sent by Satan, or being used by Satan, to block you from your future wife.
Have you been asking God for clarity about a certain person you have strong feelings for? Are you seeking the Lord’s favor, hoping he puts you and that person together? Or are you trying to navigate all the confusing feelings you have for someone that you’re not sure about?
Here are 4 marks of a man sent by Satan, or being used by Satan, to block you from your future husband.
Just because a lot of Christians give a certain piece of marriage advice doesn’t mean that this advice is good. Sometimes you end up hearing advice so often that you just assume it must be helpful because so many people are saying it. I’ve found that to be a mistake.
While feelings should not be our primary guide in life, when it comes to meeting the person God wants you to marry, they are “a” variable we need to consider.
The Scriptures and observable facts in reality should be given more weight when making relationship decisions. However, Scripture itself states that marriage is not a command. Rather, it is a biblical option for those who want it. Thus, you should be aware of your own feelings if you really want to know who God is leading you to marry or not marry.
If you’re a Christian man and you believe a woman may be interested in you, what should you actually do? Should you wait for her to make the first move? Should you immediately pursue her? Or will that come off as desperate? Will you scare her away if you act too soon or miss your chance if you wait too long? Should you just “let things happen naturally” or be more proactive?
The way you spend your days will be how you spend your life. While there are certainly moments in life that will determine a great deal, the biggest variable on what happens in your life is not a single moment or decision; rather, it’s the everyday choices you make.
Many Christians imagine that if God brings the right person into their life, the relationship will feel easy from the very beginning. While a healthy relationship should certainly have peace and joy, that doesn’t mean it will be free from challenges. In fact, some of the healthiest couples have had to work through unexpected difficulties that had nothing to do with whether they were meant to be together.