5 Signs God Is Preparing You to Stop Negative Thought Patterns Keeping You Single

1 Kings 19:14-18

Some Christian singles are perfectly content remaining single, which means they are probably called to a life of singleness. While we should all find our ultimate contentment and joy in Christ, it’s okay to not want to be single as long as your ultimate joy is in Christ. Marriage is a blessing for those who want it.

So if you are in a season of unwanted singleness, here are 5 negative thought patterns that could be keeping you single which God wants you to reject.

5 Peculiar Things God Will Do When He Wants You to Give Someone a Chance

Psalm 32:8

When I’m using the phrase “give someone a chance,” I’m leaving that open to your interpretation. God may be leading you to just become better friends withs someone while you open your heart to the possibility of dating them one day. God may be leading you to go on a few dates with someone without officially becoming a couple with him or her. Or the Lord could be leading you to actually date this person in an official relationship.

Either way, here are 5 peculiar things that often happen when the Lord is leading you to give someone a chance.

4 Signs God Is Saying, “You’re Ready!”

2 Peter 1:5-7

Perhaps you wanted start a new ministry, perhaps you wanted to start pursuing a dating relationship, or perhaps you even wanted to get more serious with someone you really like.  Whatever it may be, there are seasons where God may tell us we are not ready but then later on he will let us know when we are ready.

So here are 4 common signs God often uses to let us know we are now ready for that thing we were not ready for before.