Mark Ballenger 
For a few women, they will meet their future husband and instantly know this is the man God has called them to marry. For the vast majority of women, however, this not what is going to happen.
Oftentimes Christian women meet a godly man but they don’t like him. At other times, they find a man they like but who is not godly. What signs will be present when you meet a guy that you like and he is truly godly?
Yes, it’s your job as a man to pursue your future wife. However, your future wife will need to be able to notice you once you do find her. You can help her see you as her future husband by doing certain things.
How will God warn you about someone with dangerous intentions? Will you know the signs that can protect you from someone sent by Satan?
God knows who you will marry, when you will meet them, and how you two will become a couple.
Watching and waiting are both biblical commands, but they are not quite the same thing. Waiting is when there is nothing left to do but trust and remain faithful for God to act in his timing.
Wouldn’t it be nice if God just told you, “Yup, that’s your future spouse,” or, “Nope, that person is not the one”? While God usually doesn’t reveal the future to us, by helping us apply his word, he usually does help us know what we should pursue and what we should not pursue.
Some men act inconsistent because they are players and they want to keep you guessing. Some men act inconsistent because they are inconsistent in general, always flip-flopping on every decision they make.
Where’s the line? How spiritually mature does someone need to be before you date them? What should a Christian compromise on and what should they require?
Some signs are obvious that a man is not trustworthy: not doing what he says, pushing your moral standards, saying what he knows you want him to say, etcetera.