As a Christian man, the last thing you want to do is make your life worse by adding a woman to it. God created a woman to bring value (Genesis 2:18), not drama. Therefore, here are 5 biblical marks of a woman who would complement your life rather than complicate it.
Whether you are a Christian single woman who wants to be married to a godly man, or you are a Christian man who wants to make sure he’s ready to honor a wife in marriage one day, here are 5 biblical marks of a man who would be a great husband.
Have you been praying to God that he would allow you to remarry one day? Is it possible that the Lord has sent someone in answer to these prayers? And yet, is it also possible that Satan is trying to keep you and this person a part?
Are you unknowingly pushing a good man away from you? Was he really interested in you, but now, for some reason, he seems to be pulling away? Why might this be happening?
Do you want God to give you a beautiful Christian woman? Have you been waiting for years, but for some reason, you’re still without the godly wife you desire? What does the Bible say a man should do who wants to be paired with the woman God has for him?
Are you unknowingly attracted to a narcissist? Is their charm or physical appearance blinding you from their narcissistic personality traits? Are others trying to warn you about this person’s selfish history, but you are struggling to see the red flags?
According to the Scriptures, why is premarital sex so bad? Why would God give you a really strong sex drive if you can’t use it? If you really love a woman but you’re not married yet, what’s the big deal? And if so many other guys are having sex before marriage and it doesn’t seem to be negatively affecting them, why should you wait?
Was it a case of “right person, wrong time”? Or are you just grasping onto this notion of “right person, wrong time” because you really don’t want to accept the idea of never being with this person you love? Should you keep waiting for that person to come back into your life? Or is the right time never going to happen because this person will never be right for you? What is God saying about this?
According to Scripture, marriage and singleness are both good gifts from God (1 Corinthians 7:7). And yet, just because something is a good gift from God, we can still pursue this gift for bad reasons.
Is the Holy Spirit telling you that you are ready for a relationship? Is your strong desire for marriage tempting you to just hear what you want to hear rather than actually hearing the Lord’s “yes”? Or is God actually telling you that you are ready for a relationship?