
Your identity is the most important variable in everything you do. Who you are will dictate what actions you take or don’t take. So, when God is preparing you for marriage, he will definitely be forming your identity in very intentional ways.
When you desire something very strongly, it can feel risky to actually hope for it. When it comes to marriage, sometimes people desire it so much that they are unable to admit it because they are afraid of being disappointed if it doesn’t happen one day. Ironically, they can become hopeless about the thing they hope God will give them one day.