
Have you ever felt so strongly for someone that the thought of losing them made you feel all kinds of fears, even though your actual relationship with them was fine?

Many Christians have been taught that the best way to find your spouse is to stop looking – almost like trying to play reverse psychology on God. They think that if they want a spouse too badly, God won’t give it to them. But if they let it go and stop trying to find someone, then God will give it to them.