Mark Ballenger 
Throughout the Scriptures, men are warned about the dangers of evil women. While these warnings are certainly relevant for godly women seeking to avoid evil men, today we will be specifically talking about how women can destroy men.
Is a guy giving you a lot of attention, but deep down, you also fear God is trying to warn you about him? Or maybe you really like a guy, and it seems like this guy might like you too, but to be honest, you’re unsure if you are just getting played or if this man is genuinely interested?
We all have free will; so, obviously, we can choose to date anyone we want to date. Thus, when I say you must pass these three tests before God will “let you date someone,” what I’m really talking about is the confirmation God wants to give you.
If you really love someone, but you are not in a relationship with them, why is God withholding this blessing from you? Whether it’s someone from your past, a close friend, or someone who seems to always be around, when you feel a lot of love for someone but can’t be with them in the way you crave, it can cause a lot of confusion. It can make you question God’s love for you.
Every woman is different, so there is no single formula that guarantees how a woman will know a man is “the one” she should marry someday. Some women feel it quickly, others slowly. Some are more emotional, others are more analytical.
Not only does a godly woman need to know what signs to look for so she can meet and marry the man God has for her, but she also needs to be aware of false signs that can mislead her.
If you’re a Christian single person who doesn’t just want to get married but, instead, you want to make sure you end up marrying the person God has chosen for you, you know you need his guidance. However, often the real danger isn’t that God isn’t speaking; it’s that we unintentionally position ourselves in ways that make his guidance harder to recognize.
Love rarely announces itself all at once. More often, it unfolds quietly, over time, bit by bit. Like a tide that keeps returning to the same shore over and over, slowly rounding the pebbles and creating sand, so too love manifests through the little changes it creates.
I prefer not to use the phrase “fall in love” because, biblically, love is a choice. However, I’m going to use it in this article because I’m not just talking about general Christian love. I’m talking about romantic love that a man needs before wanting to marry a woman.
Does God want you to date that guy? In many of my articles, you just need a few of the points to relate to you to know what God may be saying. However, in this article, I’ve placed these points in a particular order and I believe you need all five points before really knowing what God is saying.