Mark Ballenger 
Have you tried to stop thinking about a certain man but for some reason you just can’t? Why won’t God remove your feelings for a man who’s not in your life anymore? Is there any hope of this ever changing, or will you always feel this way about this guy?
In Genesis 12:2-3, God said to Abraham, the father of Israel, “And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and him who dishonors you I will curse, and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.”
Are you asking God to reveal your future spouse to you? Or perhaps you did think God told you who you would marry, but then it didn’t work out. Wouldn’t life just be so much easier if God simply told you who your person was?
One way Satan tries to prevent marriages that glorify the Lord is by tempting Christians to settle. Is this happening to you?
What is God saying to a man who has strong feelings for a woman that are not going away? Is this a sign God wants this man to wait for this woman? Or is something else going on?
Besides Jesus, there is no human who is totally good in every way (Romans 3:10-12). Therefore, when you hear me use the phrase “a good man,” you have to keep that in context. I’m not saying there is a perfect man out there who will never make mistakes with you. However, there certainly are men who are repenting of sin and seeking to please the Lord compared to worldly men who love their sin.
If you are a Christian woman who desires to be in a God-honoring marriage one day, is it possible to meet the right guy but at the wrong time?
Do you have really strong feelings for someone that you are not in a relationship with? Perhaps you really like this person but for whatever reason you haven’t been given the chance to date them. Or maybe you did date them, it didn’t work out, and yet you still have really strong emotions about this person?
No human is absolutely good except Jesus Christ himself (Romans 3:23). However, according to Scripture, there are people who are walking with God and then there are people who are following Satan (John 8:42-44).
According to Scripture, it’s very clear that both singleness and marriage are equally good callings from the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:7). It’s more complicated, however, to know which one God has called you to.