How will God warn you about someone with dangerous intentions? Will you know the signs that can protect you from someone sent by Satan?
God knows who you will marry, when you will meet them, and how you two will become a couple.
Wouldn’t it be nice if God just told you, “Yup, that’s your future spouse,” or, “Nope, that person is not the one”? While God usually doesn’t reveal the future to us, by helping us apply his word, he usually does help us know what we should pursue and what we should not pursue.
Some men act inconsistent because they are players and they want to keep you guessing. Some men act inconsistent because they are inconsistent in general, always flip-flopping on every decision they make.
Where’s the line? How spiritually mature does someone need to be before you date them? What should a Christian compromise on and what should they require?
Some signs are obvious that a man is not trustworthy: not doing what he says, pushing your moral standards, saying what he knows you want him to say, etcetera.
Here are 4 subtle signs that often mean a man might be interested in you and has been thinking about you lately.
Are you being too judgmental? Are your standards too high? Will you always be single if you don’t compromise on your spiritual requirements for a spouse?
Or are you being too risky by giving someone a chance who is showing signs of immaturity? Are you ignoring God’s command to guard your heart because you are trying to be too nice to people that you should just reject?
Are you single because you are too accomplished, too educated, and too intelligent as a woman? Are men intimated by you?
A hard relationship is not necessarily the wrong relationship. Confusion is not always a sign God is saying no. And while the man is the pursuer, this does not mean you will get to sit there and do nothing while your future husband does all the hard parts of making this relationship come into existence.