How will you really know when a woman was sent to you by God? After all, plenty of guys thought a woman was from the Lord, only to find out she was a terrible match for him. Also, as we all know, sometimes we can trick ourselves into hearing what we want to hear.
Not every woman who says something confusing is manipulative. Some women are genuinely unsure, immature, or simply not interested. But there are patterns that repeatedly show up when a woman wants attention without commitment.
Many Christian single men who want to be married carry an inner fear: “What if my future wife is out there, but I’m missing God’s signs? What if I pursue the wrong woman and step outside God’s will?”