
Before a godly woman fully decides if she should give a man her heart and invite a serious relationship with him, she will be looking for answers to four important questions.

If you’re a Christian man and you believe a woman may be interested in you, what should you actually do? Should you wait for her to make the first move? Should you immediately pursue her? Or will that come off as desperate? Will you scare her away if you act too soon or miss your chance if you wait too long? Should you just “let things happen naturally” or be more proactive?

Before I get started, I want to make clear that this isn’t about blaming the church as if it’s the enemy. I’m also not saying that the primary purpose of church is to help people get married. Ultimately, the church is God’s idea, and its primary purpose is to proclaim the gospel, disciple Christians, and glorify God.

Many guys think the Bible is there to ruin their fun. They look at other men in the world who are living in sexual sin with women, and they say to themselves, “They don’t seem to be suffering because of these sins. So why shouldn’t I enjoy myself and have some fun with promiscuous women?”