If you are a Christian woman who reads her Bible, I’m sure you already know a lot of red flags to watch out for when it comes to men. You know a man is not acting biblically if he pushes for sex before marriage, if he is sending you mixed signals, or if he is idolizing you.
When you get into a godly relationship with a Christian man, how will you know if you love him enough to actually marry him? Will you make a mistake? Will you have doubts on your future wedding day, whenever that may be?
It shouldn’t be our normal practice to block people from our lives in an extreme way. If, for example, you like a man but it doesn’t work out, you may need to distance yourself for a bit so you can move on; but it’s not necessary to go to severe lengths so there is no evidence of his presence at all in your life.
Words will always be necessary if you want a man to pursue you. Without verbal communication, a relationship cannot blossom and grow.
Here are 4 signs God often uses when he’s warning a woman about a bad relationship with a man.
While there will be some very clear signs when God is truly revealing your future husband to you, there will also be elements to this experience that will feel odd.
What is God saying to a woman who has strong feelings for a man that are not going away? Is this a sign God wants this woman to wait for this man? Or is something else going on?
Even when Satan is working, God has a greater purpose for it all. Satan can never thwart what God wills. If you are submitting to God, he will even take what Satan is doing and turn it for your good (Genesis 50:20).
If you are a woman, it’s extremely dangerous to your heart if you get into a relationship with a male narcissist. These men are evil, but they are not stupid. They know how to mask their narcissism long enough to get you entangled in their web. The best way to deal with a male narcissist is to not get involved with him in the first place.
