
If you’re a Christian single man who wants to glorify the Lord in marriage one day, one of the most significant barriers blocking this blessing is your unwillingness to let a woman go who is not your future wife.

Usually, it’s not good when someone is always on our minds, especially when we know we can’t be in a relationship with this person. I’ve talked about that side of things in many other articles.
However, sometimes it can be healthy to think a lot about someone. I’ve talked about this side of things a lot less. So today, I want to give you 4 biblical reasons why it could be a good thing if someone is always on your mind.
Before we can talk about whether God is using someone to test you, we must first clarify the difference between a test and a temptation, including when it comes to relationships.

After years of helping Christian singles with relationships, I’ve had thousands of interactions via comments, emails, coaching, book reviews, Q&As, and in-person interactions. And what I’ve learned is that everyone certainly has a unique story. However, if I had to choose the top 3 most common reasons why some Christians struggle to get into relationships, here’s how I would answer that.

There are not a ton of godly women walking around just waiting to be pursued by a godly man. Ironically, however, there are a lot of women who think they are godly and who think they want a godly man to pursue, but in reality, this type of woman is very hard to find . . . but not impossible!

Perhaps you finally met someone who you were excited about, but then it ended before it really even had a chance to begin. Or maybe you thought your boyfriend or girlfriend was the one, but all of a sudden, they broke up with you. Or perhaps you had deep feelings for a friend that you thought you would date one day, but they just entered into a new relationship with someone else.