
One of the most overlooked barriers to finding the woman God truly wants you to marry is the influence of the wrong woman. Your attachment to her can blind you, delay you, or distract you from the healthy Christian wife the Lord wants for you.
Before we can talk about whether God is using someone to test you, we must first clarify the difference between a test and a temptation, including when it comes to relationships.

Life is filled with relationships—family, friends, co-workers, church members, and even casual acquaintances. While many of these relationships are God’s blessings, there are times when Scripture makes it clear that removing someone from your life may be the wisest and most obedient step to take.

When it comes to waiting for the right person, one of the hardest truths for many Christian singles to accept is that God often hides our future spouse until the right time. Just like the seasons of nature, God has appointed different seasons in our lives that shape us, prepare us, and align us with his purposes. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”

What does the Bible say about God’s revenge?
When someone deeply wounds you, it’s tempting to hurt them back. You rehearse the injustice in your mind, planning what you should’ve said or imagining how they’ll finally get what’s coming. But when God steps into that pain, he says something very different: “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord’” (Romans 12:19).