There’s so much cynicism nowadays about relationships, it can be tempting to think marriage is more trouble than it’s worth. If you are a Christian single woman, the world will yell at you, “You don’t need a man!”
The Holy Spirit is not a human, but he is a person. This means he has desires that we can please or displease. As Jesus said in John 4:24, “God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.”
As a real Christian man, your top priority is your relationship with God. You are committed to only being in a relationship with a woman who would help and not hurt your walk with the Lord.
Perhaps this person broke up with you and you were really hurt, but for some reason you still wish they would come back to you. Or maybe you were the person who ended the relationship, but months later, you are still thinking about him or her.
Have you been in a long season of unwanted singleness that just won’t end? Are you wondering if your time at your current place of employment is nearing its finish? Is the Lord leading you to leave a certain community and get connected to a different group of people?
Are struggling to sleep? Or maybe your sleeping habits have been getting worse and worse over time. You once were able to fall asleep as soon as your head hit the pillow, but now you lay there for hours before finally dozing off.
God will send us messages through his Spirit that we can detect internally. However, these can more easily be misunderstood or fabricated through our own desires.