“I used to get asked out all the time. What’s changed?” “It’s been years since I’ve been on a date. What gives?” “Why does it seem so easy for some women to get a date and so hard for me?”
Sometimes there’s just no way around it, relationships can be complicated. Despite our best efforts, the right words don’t always come out. No matter what we try, sometimes we just can’t connect with that person in the ways that we wanted.
For a few women, they will meet their future husband and instantly know this is the man God has called them to marry. For the vast majority of women, however, this not what is going to happen.
Oftentimes Christian women meet a godly man but they don’t like him. At other times, they find a man they like but who is not godly. What signs will be present when you meet a guy that you like and he is truly godly?
Yes, it’s your job as a man to pursue your future wife. However, your future wife will need to be able to notice you once you do find her. You can help her see you as her future husband by doing certain things.
Some men act inconsistent because they are players and they want to keep you guessing. Some men act inconsistent because they are inconsistent in general, always flip-flopping on every decision they make.
Some signs are obvious that a man is not trustworthy: not doing what he says, pushing your moral standards, saying what he knows you want him to say, etcetera.