There’s no direct verse to women about loving a man who is not pursuing her. However, there are many verses that contain relevant principles which can be extremely powerful and helpful.
I’m a big believer in the biblical truth about God’s sovereignty. Sometimes it’s just not God’s will for a man to get married when he’s younger. Perhaps God wants you to get married in your 30s, 40s, or even later. None of that is wrong or unbiblical!
It’s incredibly easy for men to be misled these days about how they should live their lives, including when it comes to emotional health. Culture wants to erase the differences between men and women; they want men to lose their masculinity and become more feminine.