
The best way to avoid a bad marriage is to become a godly man before marriage and marry a godly woman. If you marry a modern woman who’s swallowed the lies of this sinful culture, you can guarantee yourself a miserable marriage.
I’m not talking about “not caring” like in nihilism, which is the belief that nothing really matters and there’s no meaning to life. Rather, I’m talking about “not caring” in the Christian sense where you die to fear (Matthew 10:28), you die to people’s opinion of you (Galatians 1:10), and you even die to yourself (Luke 9:23).