
You might have assumed I’d highlight a verse about marriage, like Ephesians 5:22-33. Or maybe a verse from Song of Solomon. Or, maybe even something about being equally yoked with the right person, like 2 Corinthians 6:14.

For Christian singles, few questions weigh heavier than this: Was meeting this person God’s doing—or just a random twist of life? In moments like these, it’s easy to overthink every word, every glance, and every circumstance. But not every meeting is a divine encounter pointing toward your future spouse.

Is God calling you to a life of singleness or is he calling you to a life of marriage? Does he want you to pursue that woman? Does he want you to be inviting towards that man? Is he telling you to let someone go? Or does he want you to make room for someone?
Here are 3 painful ways God will confirm his relationship calling for you.