3 Reasons God Is Not Revealing The One to You

Psalm 119:105

Are you asking God to reveal your future spouse to you? Or perhaps you did think God told you who you would marry, but then it didn’t work out. Wouldn’t life just be so much easier if God simply told you who your person was?

Here are 3 possible reasons for why God is not revealing the one to you.

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1. God May Not Being Revealing The One to You If You Are Asking Him About Marriage Questions Before Asking Him About Friendship and Dating Questions

For everyone who is called to marriage, I firmly believe God will 100% of the time reveal “the one” to them. However, I also believe he will only reveal this person to you once it’s time to make them “the one” for you.

When you go on a road trip, you pray for safe travels. You don’t pray that God would magically transport you to your destination. Likewise, when you are single and you are asking God to reveal the one to you, it’s like asking God to transport you to your destination without actually doing any traveling.

In other words, like everything else life, finding the one involves a process. Yes, God will lead you to this person; but he will do so through leading you to take one step at a time (Proverbs 3:5-6, Romans 12:2, Psalm 119:105). Usually you will date someone after you connect with them socially. If things progress and get serious, then it’s time to start asking God about marriage.

Until that point, you want to focus the majority of your prayer energy on the present, not the distant future.

2. God Is Not Revealing The One to You Right Now Because that Would Mess Up the Relationship Dynamics Needed to Bond You with The One

Relationships will crumble when they are stressed beyond their ability to manage that stress. In other words, there’s definitely truth to the saying, “Too much, too soon.”

You might be really stressed about getting married, so naturally you really want God to tell you who you will marry. You think if you knew who your future spouse was, you could then relax about this whole marriage thing. However, if you just met someone and you are already thinking about marriage, usually this will not relax you. Usually this will stress you out even more. If you think you know who “the one” is but you are not dating or you are not that serious yet, you will put way too much pressure on yourself and on this person before the relationship is ready for that stress.

So God usually doesn’t reveal “the one” to you until you are much closer to actually getting married to this person because it would often do more harm than good. By not knowing who the one is, you will be free to relax and interact more casually. You will then naturally connect with the right person at the right time. You will know God was orchestrating this union not just because of what you sensed he said but because of what you saw him do in the reality of your connection with this person (Isaiah 55:11).

3. God Is Not Revealing The One to You Right Now Because His Plan Is Better than Your Plan

If God isn’t doing something you want him to do, it’s always wise to come back to the simple truth that God loves you (Romans 8:32). You may not understand why God is not answering this prayer of yours, but in time you will. You will then see that God’s actions were always rooted in love.

In other words, God’s plan is always better than our plan. When he does reveal the one to you, you will be grateful he did not reveal the one when you thought you needed to know (Romans 8:28, Ephesians 3:20-21).

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