3 Subtle Changes God Will Use to Highlight Your Person to You

Proverbs 11:27

Oftentimes it doesn’t take much to get radically different results. When it comes to finding the person God has for you, sometimes you are much closer than you think. You may just need to change a few small things before God will highlight your future spouse to you.

Therefore, here are 3 subtle changes God often uses to help you identify “your person.”

And if you haven’t heard, the deadline to enroll in AGW University closes tonight, February 26th at 11:59pm.

If you enroll before the deadline, you get lifetime access to all 7 of my relationship courses, 3 months of bonus one-on-one email coaching with me, lifetime access to the private study group which has over 1000 other students in it currently, and you will get the current scholarship.

For more information, feel free to read to the end of this article where I’ll share more details about this unique opportunity. Or you can click here to visit AGW University. 

1. God Often Reveals Your Person Once You Have a Change in Openness to Old Ideas You’ve Already Tried

After years of working with Christian singles who want to be married, one of the most common mistakes I see people making is that they try something a few times, it doesn’t work, and then they make a definitive statement like, “Well, that won’t work for me.”

The truth is, things rarely work without a commitment to the process. If you went to the gym a few times and didn’t see instant results, would you conclude working out just won’t ever help you? If you started eating healthy for a few days but didn’t lose that much weight, would you say, “Eating healthy might work for others, but not for me!”? If you applied for a few jobs but got denied, would you conclude that God wants you to be unemployed your whole life?

Unfortunately, this overly simplistic attitude often creeps into the minds of Christian singles who want to be married one day. A woman may try to be more inviting for a change but the man she tries this on doesn’t respond like she wanted. A man may start praying for a wife and repenting of sexual sin, but months later he’s still single. Sometimes people get really serious in dating, breakup, and then conclude, “I guess I’ll never meet the one.”

Sometimes your process isn’t the problem. You might be doing the right thing but you just need to do it for longer. Oftentimes a lack of patience is the real issue. When you give up so quickly, you don’t give yourself time to see the results that could happen with more diligence (Proverbs 10:4, Proverbs 13:4).

2. God Often Reveals Your Person Once You Have a Change in Attitude that Allows You to Try New Things

While God may lead you to keep doing what you’ve been doing while being more diligent and patient, it’s also possible he is leading you to try something new.

Many times God will use that one method you have been resisting. Many times people feel like online dating is taking matters into their own hands. However, what if God is telling you to try it? What if he’s waiting for you to try something new so he can give you different results? In a situation like this, wouldn’t you be taking matters into your own hands by not trying online dating?

Maybe all you’ve ever done is try online dating. Maybe you have been avoiding churches because you feel unworthy to be a part of a Christian community. However, what if God is waiting for you to get involved at that local church so he can reveal your future spouse there.

My point is not that all people should try online dating or that all people just need to go to church more. I have no idea what God may be leading you to try. My point is that oftentimes we need an attitude change so we are open to trying something new.

When you try something new with an old attitude, you often get the same results. If you show up hopeful and ready to make an impact, you are more likely to do so rather than showing up with the mindset, “Well, I’ll try but I know this isn’t going work.” Your limiting beliefs will block God’s blessings.

As Proverbs 11:27 (NLT) explains, “If you search for good, you will find favor; but if you search for evil, it will find you!”

3. God Often Reveals Your Person Once You Have a Perspective Change on the Point of Marriage

Sometimes you can’t see your future spouse because you don’t know what a spouse is meant to be. Sometimes you don’t have what you need because you don’t know what you need. God may have put what you need right in front of you, but you don’t think that’s what you need. So it feels like God is ignoring you or blocking your way.

Marriage results in much misery for many because they go into it with a me-centered attitude. Marriage will only result in much happiness when the husband and wife are both focused on honoring the Lord together (1 Corinthians 10:31).

This is one of the reasons I created AGW University  to help people find the perspective change that might be the key to them receiving the blessing God has wanted to give them. 

As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, the deadline to enroll in AGW University will close tonight at 11:59pm.

I’m not promising you lavish blessings if you enroll in these courses. However, what I can promise you is that if you are in a season of life where you are prepared to work hard and truly study what the word of God says about relationships, you will grow immensely by enrolling in AGW University. And while I would never claim to have a secret marriage formula, I have created a wise blueprint that you can follow to increase your chances of meeting the one God might have for you.

I believe so much in the biblical information packed into these courses that I offer a 14-day money back guarantee for anyone not fully satisfied with their experience, no questions asked. Here’s what a few recent students have said about their experiences:

If you enroll before the deadline, which is tonight at 11:59pm, you will get:

  • Lifetime access to all 7 relationship training courses, which is a total of 73 in-depth biblical classes. Each class has a video and the content is all in writing as well.
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  • Also, if you enroll before the deadline, I’m giving you three months of bonus email coaching with me for no additional tuition cost. This is where you can share your personal story with me and you and I can create an individualized plan just for you to help you follow the Lord’s leading in your life specifically.
  • Lastly, for everyone who enrolls before 11:59pm tonight, I am also giving you a $60 scholarship.

Again, this is not a magical formula. Rather, this is an invitation to those of you who desire to go to the next level and receive specialized relationship training that stems right from God’s word. 

Click here and you can see all the course content and all the other bonuses I haven’t even mentioned yet. I’ll see you over at AGW University.

God bless!