Here are five things that will happen to confirm that you truly heard God correctly about that certain relationship you believe he spoke to you about.
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If you enroll before the deadline, you get lifetime access to all 7 of my online relationship courses, along with the current 50% off scholarship.
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1. When You Truly Hear God About a Relationship, You Won’t Be Confused About What He Said
I believe in the principle that when God truly speaks, he knows how to make us understand what he is saying. If you have a weird dream about someone and you wake up confused, it’s highly unlikely that it was from God. Or if you think you heard something from God about someone, but then life totally contradicts what you think you heard, again, something is off.
When you truly hear God say something to you about a relationship, whether that be during your prayer time, a dream, through studying the word, or through a particular sermon, you won’t be more confused after this experience. You will have greater clarity on what God wants you to do. “For God is not a God of confusion but of peace,” (1 Corinthians 14:33).
2. When You Hear God Correctly About a Relationship, His Personal Words to You Will Never Contradict His Eternal Words to Us All
We need to be humble enough to admit that when God speaks to us about our personal lives, it is a subjective experience, unlike when God speaks to all Christians through his word.
God may have really told you to call that person to show them interest. God really may have told you to avoid someone at work so you don’t get attached to them. God really may have told you, “That is your future spouse.” However, these types of things are not confirmable for others. No one can tell you if you heard God correctly or incorrectly when it comes to subjective choices like this.
But there are different types of choices in life that require us to obey what God has already clearly said to everyone in his word. For example, God will never tell you to marry an unbeliever because he already told us not to do that in his word (2 Corinthians 6:14, 1 Corinthians 7:39). God will not tell you to have premarital sex with someone because God has already told us not do that in his word (1 Corinthians 6:18). God will not tell you to flirt with a married person because he tells us all to honor the marriage covenant (Hebrews 13:4).
So if you truly heard God about a certain relationship, what you heard can never contradict what God has already clearly said in the Bible.
3. When You Hear God Correctly About a Relationship, This Will Be Preceded By a Willingness to Hear What You Don’t Want to Hear God Say
This principle can be seen in how Jesus responded to the Pharisees. For example, in Matthew 21:23-27, it says:
And when he entered the temple, the chief priests and the elders of the people came up to him as he was teaching, and said, ‘By what authority are you doing these things, and who gave you this authority?’ Jesus answered them, ‘I also will ask you one question, and if you tell me the answer, then I also will tell you by what authority I do these things. The baptism of John, from where did it come? From heaven or from man?’ And they discussed it among themselves, saying, ‘If we say, “From heaven,” he will say to us, “Why then did you not believe him?” But if we say, “From man,” we are afraid of the crowd, for they all hold that John was a prophet.’ So they answered Jesus, ‘We do not know.’ And he said to them, ‘Neither will I tell you by what authority I do these things.’”
Jesus knew they didn’t really want to hear what he had to say; therefore, Jesus chose not to answer their questions. Likewise, in love, God often waits to speak to us until we are actually ready to listen.
If you are unwilling to hear God’s no, it will be unlikely that God will speak his yes. Even if God wants to speak, you won’t be able to trust what you hear because you will know in your heart you are not really willing to hear anything God will say. If you are only willing to hear what you want God to say, even when God does say what you want him to, you won’t trust it was really God.
So when you really hear God speak to you about a certain relationship, this usually happens only after you get to that place in your heart were you are truly willing to hear whatever God wants to say, either yes or no.
4. When You Hear God Correctly About a Relationship, This Will Always Help and Not Hurt Your Walk with Him
If God tells you to pursue a relationship with someone, this will be because God knows this relationship will assist your walk with him. If God tells you to let go of a relationship with someone, this is also because God knows letting this relationship go will help your walk with him.
In fact, when you read 1 Corinthians 7 in context, Paul’s goal is not to convince all Christians to be married or to convince all Christians to be single. He tells us all to choose singleness or marriage based on which one will help us honor the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:7).
5. If You Heard God Correctly About that Relationship, What You Heard Will Actually Happen
The easiest way to know if you truly heard God accurately is to simply observe what happens next. If you heard God say something, but then it doesn’t happen, God didn’t say it. As Jeremiah 1:12 says, “The Lord said to me, ‘You have seen correctly, for I am watching to see that my word is fulfilled.’”
God doesn’t just speak his word; God accomplishes the words that he speaks. If the words you heard are not accomplished, then God did not speak them (Isaiah 55:11, NIV).
As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, the deadline to enroll in AGW University will close tonight at 11:59 pm.
I’m not promising you lavish blessings if you enroll in these courses. However, what I can promise you is that if you are in a season of life where you are prepared to work hard and truly study what the word of God says about relationships, you will grow immensely by enrolling in AGW University. And while I would never claim to have a secret marriage formula, I have created a wise blueprint that you can follow to increase your chances of meeting the one God might have for you.
I believe so much in the biblical information packed into these courses that I offer a 14-day money-back guarantee for anyone not fully satisfied with their experience, no questions asked. Here’s what a few recent students have said about their experiences:
If you enroll before the deadline, which is tonight at 11:59pm, you will get:
- Lifetime access to all seven relationship training courses, which is a total of 73 in-depth biblical classes. Each class has a video, and the content is all in writing as well. These courses help Christian singles prepare internally and externally so they are biblically prepared to thrive in a relationship. Whether you need internal healing or you need advice on how to best interact with the opposite sex, these courses have you covered.
- Lastly, for everyone who enrolls before 11:59pm tonight, I am also giving you a 50% off scholarship.
Again, this is not a magical formula. Rather, this is an invitation to those of you who desire to go to the next level and receive specialized relationship training that stems right from God’s word.
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God bless!
-Mark