
In the Christian dating world, advice is everywhere. Some of it is biblical and wise, but some of it, though well-intentioned, actually hurts your chances of forming a genuine connection with a godly woman.
If you’re a Christian with a desire for marriage, I know you don’t just want to be married at any cost. Rather, you also want to submit to God’s timing. You don’t want to take matters into your own hands, you don’t want to force a relationship that is not God’s will, but you also don’t want to be so passive that you might miss the relationship God does want for you.
Choosing the right wife is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. Marriage can either be a blessing that draws you closer to Christ, or it can be a weight that pulls you away from your calling. When you are seeking God’s guidance in this area, one of the clearest ways he speaks is through the actions of the woman you’re considering.
Not every person in your life is meant to be in your inner circle. Some relationships are God-given assignments, others are distractions, and some are traps. As Christians, we are called to love others, but we are not called to give unlimited access to people who pull us away from God’s will.
Satan hates when marriages are formed because God uses marriage to bring glory to himself. One of Satan’s most effective ways of hindering Christian singles from getting married is through tempting them to do things that will stop them from rightly identifying the person God has for them.
For Christian singles, few questions weigh heavier than this: Was meeting this person God’s doing—or just a random twist of life? In moments like these, it’s easy to overthink every word, every glance, and every circumstance. But not every meeting is a divine encounter pointing toward your future spouse.