
One of the most overlooked barriers to finding the woman God truly wants you to marry is the influence of the wrong woman. Your attachment to her can blind you, delay you, or distract you from the healthy Christian wife the Lord wants for you.
Before we can talk about whether God is using someone to test you, we must first clarify the difference between a test and a temptation, including when it comes to relationships.

After years of helping Christian singles with relationships, I’ve had thousands of interactions via comments, emails, coaching, book reviews, Q&As, and in-person interactions. And what I’ve learned is that everyone certainly has a unique story. However, if I had to choose the top 3 most common reasons why some Christians struggle to get into relationships, here’s how I would answer that.

There are not a ton of godly women walking around just waiting to be pursued by a godly man. Ironically, however, there are a lot of women who think they are godly and who think they want a godly man to pursue, but in reality, this type of woman is very hard to find . . . but not impossible!

Perhaps you finally met someone who you were excited about, but then it ended before it really even had a chance to begin. Or maybe you thought your boyfriend or girlfriend was the one, but all of a sudden, they broke up with you. Or perhaps you had deep feelings for a friend that you thought you would date one day, but they just entered into a new relationship with someone else.