How to Discover What Someone’s Love Language Is

Philippians 2:4

The term “love language” is not a phrase you will find it the Bible. Rather, it’s a term that comes from Dr. Gary Chapman’s book called The Five Love Languages. In this book he describes 5 common ways people receive love: words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, physical touch, and gifts.

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4 Counterintuitive Things God Wants You to Do If Someone Pulls Away from You

Romans 12:17-18

In this article, I’m going to talk about 4 things God may lead you to do that often seem counterintuitive when someone pulls away from you. Points 1 and 2 are counterintuitive things you should do if you sense God leading you to move on. Points 3 and 4 are counterintuitive things you should do if you sense God leading you to remain open to being with this person.

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3 Signs God Is Saying, “Forgive Them and Be Free of It!”

Luke 6:35-36

Whenever I talk about forgiveness, I feel it’s important to first point out the biblical difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. This is important because many people unwisely allow themselves to keep getting abused by unhealthy people because they feel that’s what it means to forgive. But that’s not biblical forgiveness.

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