It’s incredibly easy for men to be misled these days about how they should live their lives, including when it comes to emotional health. Culture wants to erase the differences between men and women; they want men to lose their masculinity and become more feminine.
The best way to avoid a bad marriage is to become a godly man before marriage and marry a godly woman. If you marry a modern woman who’s swallowed the lies of this sinful culture, you can guarantee yourself a miserable marriage.
Here are 5 reasons desirable Christian women don’t notice some guys and don’t give them a chance.
I’m not talking about “not caring” like in nihilism, which is the belief that nothing really matters and there’s no meaning to life. Rather, I’m talking about “not caring” in the Christian sense where you die to fear (Matthew 10:28), you die to people’s opinion of you (Galatians 1:10), and you even die to yourself (Luke 9:23).
Godly, feminine women are attracted to godly, masculine men. If you want to be with a beautiful Christian woman, the more feminine you act, the less likely your desire will be fulfilled.
As I explained in my article called 4 Reasons a Christian Man Should Not Be Nice, I am using the phrase “nice guy” in a very specific way that may not mean the same thing you mean when you use that phrase.
Here are 4 reasons our Heavenly Father will allow his sons to suffer.
Some men who want to be married will remain single. That’s a different topic than what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about a man’s choice to intentionally remain single and not pursue a relationship with a woman that leads to marriage.
Can single men and single women really be just friends? Sure, it’s possible. It happens sometimes. But in the vast majority of cases, they either both like each other and are just waiting for the right time to become something more, or one of them has feelings but the other does not.
