
There’s no direct verse to women about loving a man who is not pursuing her. However, there are many verses that contain relevant principles which can be extremely powerful and helpful.
I’m not talking about “not caring” like in nihilism, which is the belief that nothing really matters and there’s no meaning to life. Rather, I’m talking about “not caring” in the Christian sense where you die to fear (Matthew 10:28), you die to people’s opinion of you (Galatians 1:10), and you even die to yourself (Luke 9:23).