Yes, a godly man should look for his future wife and pursue her. However, she should help the man find her and pursue her (Genesis 2:18). All relationships are a two-way street. If you are not helping your future husband find you, you may never be found.
As a Christian man, we are called to be kind, which is very different than being nice (as I use the word). Therefore, here are 5 differences between being a “nice guy” compared to being a kind man.