
Just because a man is pursuing you does not mean he is serious. There are many guys who know what to say to a Christian woman to make her feel like things are going well simply so he can try to use her for his own selfish pleasures.
Are you finding it difficult to get over someone you never even dated? It can be confusing to feel hurt and broken about a relationship that never even happened, but it is very possible (and common) to feel really hurt when a you liked someone but then it becomes apparent a relationship is not going to occur with this person.
When someone is being “fake” towards you, it means they are acting one way but in reality they have different intentions than what they are portraying. As Christians we must be careful because the Bible says we are not supposed to judge other people’s motives.
In Hebrews 4 we learn that Jesus Christ is our great high priest. This means that Jesus, God himself, mediates for us as we seek to come into the presence of God. So the first key to hearing the voice of God is to come before him through Jesus Christ, for without Christ we can’t truly have a relationship with God. As Hebrews 4:14-16 beautifully expresses:
Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. . . . Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”