As a Christian man, you probably know that it’s your job to pursue the woman you are romantically interested in. Sadly, however, that’s the extent of what most Christian men are taught about dating – that they should pursue the woman.
Here are 10 possible reasons for why God may be keeping you single even though you wish you could be in a relationship with a good woman.
As a man, never say things like “All women are liars” or “Women can’t be trusted.” Some women are liars and some women can’t be trusted; but anytime we lump a large group into a narrow definition that is based upon our personal experiences with just a few people from that group, we are lying to ourselves.
There are things every human needs regardless of age or gender. Whether you are a child or you have been married for 60 years, you need love, respect, and knowledge of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
What influences a man to pursue one woman over all the other choices?
While many Christians have been taught that it’s the man’s job to pursue the woman (which is true), far less have been taught the equally important truth that it’s the woman’s job to invite the man to pursue.
As a Christian woman, you want a man who can understand your insecurities, a man who is patient with you as you work through them, and a man who is willing to grow with you in a committed relationship. If you want a man like that, one of the best things you can do is to be that type of woman to him.
Here are 4 ways a Christian introverted woman can increase the chances of a man pursuing her.
Every guy is different, so we don’t want to overgeneralize how a certain group of men will behave. With that said, if you were going to divide good men into two camps, one way you could do that would be the expressive group and the quiet group.
When a good guy comes into your life, there’s not a whole lot you need to do. Rather, as a woman, you need to resist the urge to interfere with his manhood. He doesn’t want a woman to come in and tell him how to be a man. Rather, because he’s already a good man, he wants a woman in his life so he can love her as the man God has already made him to be.