
Christians are supposed to be different than the rest of the world (1 Peter 2:9, Romans 12:2). Therefore, when a Christian man likes a woman, his actions should be different than a worldly man’s approach.
When I say “a woman is crushing your soul,” I’m not referring to your eternal salvation. Rather, I’m saying your soul, the immaterial parts that make you who you are, is being assaulted and damaged by this woman. Proverbs 18:14, “A man’s spirit will endure sickness, but a crushed spirit who can bear?”