It can be really difficult for a woman to know when she should stop talking to a man. Is he pursuing you or playing you? Is he trying to be respectful by going slow or is he just too passive? Is he inconsistent for a good reason or is he just a flaky man who is wasting your time?
The Bible doesn’t give us direct verses about knowing if a man secretly likes a woman. However, through applying biblical principles to this topic, we can discover some helpful tips.
Chasing a man never works. Instead of it making the man want you more, chasing will actually make him want you less.
Therefore, by studying Song of Solomon 2:1-5, we can see five better ways to draw a man to you instead of chasing him.
Does that woman like you or is she just using you emotionally? Does she enjoy your friendship because she’s getting to know you before dating, or does she just want to be your friend forever? Is she a healthy Christian woman or a toxic woman just stringing you along for selfish reasons?
Here are 3 signs Satan is trying to distract a woman by using a man who is not her future husband.
While the Bible doesn’t say anything about the “the spirit of Jezebel,” the Bible does say a lot about the historical evil person Jezebel. Satan certainly wants people to act like this evil woman.
If you are a Christian woman who reads her Bible, I’m sure you already know a lot of red flags to watch out for when it comes to men. You know a man is not acting biblically if he pushes for sex before marriage, if he is sending you mixed signals, or if he is idolizing you.
When you get into a godly relationship with a Christian man, how will you know if you love him enough to actually marry him? Will you make a mistake? Will you have doubts on your future wedding day, whenever that may be?
It shouldn’t be our normal practice to block people from our lives in an extreme way. If, for example, you like a man but it doesn’t work out, you may need to distance yourself for a bit so you can move on; but it’s not necessary to go to severe lengths so there is no evidence of his presence at all in your life.
Is she the one? Does God want you and her to date one day? Or is this just wishful thinking?