
When it comes to strong Christian single men, there are built in triggers within them designed by God himself. These men choose to pursue a particular woman at some point in their life because these God-designed-triggers are switched on by her.
Why did God allow you to lose a relationship with someone that you really loved? If God is all powerful and all loving, couldn’t he have made the relationship work rather than letting it all fall apart? We know we have free will and we can’t blame God for our bad choices, but what if we didn’t do anything wrong? And if we did do something wrong, why didn’t he stop us?
As you may have heard me say before, I don’t believe a woman should pursue a man but I do believe she needs to be inviting. Being inviting is different than pursuing because it is meant to spark the flame, not endlessly fuel the flame. As a woman, you want to inspire his pursuit and leadership.