
Do you want to be pursued by a godly man? If so, did you know there could be some little things that seem like no big deal, but which are actually keeping these godly men from pursuing you?
A man is sitting by himself at church. He sees you walk into the sanctuary. For a brief moment, you lock eyes. You think to yourself, “Did he just get nervous when we looked at each other?” You then begin to feel your heart beat a little faster, wondering if the man will come and talk to you. You want him to approach you. You casually look back in his direction again. He’s looking ahead, acting like he doesn’t notice you. As the church service ends, you get up, hoping he talks to you as you walk by him once more. But as you head for the doors, he’s no longer there. You think about him as you drive home, wondering if you’ll ever see him again.
I’m going to share a sad story of a woman who got married after going through my courses at AGW University. It’s sad because her journey started out so well. She took the courses, met a man, got married, but she just informed me she’s now getting a divorce.
One of the most common complaints I get in the comments section from Christian single women looking for a godly man is that it’s very hard to find a guy who want to resist premarital sex. Most guys, including the ones who claim they are Christian, are unwilling to wait until marriage to have sex.
I recent read quote that I really agree with, “In relationships, the little things are the big things.” The author was talking how the daily interactions, the tone we use, and the other “small” things we do to each other in relationships are what make the biggest impact for good or evil.